Introduction
Compassion-focused therapy (CFT) is a psychotherapeutic approach developed by Professor Paul Gilbert OBE, rooted in the belief that compassion is a powerful and transformative mental healing force.1
It draws upon different psychological modalities, along with attachment theory, neuroscience, and Buddhist psychology. Its comprehensive multi-perspectives approach has also transformed the school of psychotherapy from a psychological, neurophysiological perspective into a more comprehensive, biopsychosocial science.
If you are struggling with self-criticism and shame, continuing reading can help you to know more about CFT, become more compassionate, and improve your self-esteem and overall well-being.
Core principles
Cultivation of compassion
The first and foremost of CFT lies in the cultivation of compassion, both towards oneself and others. Various compassionate mind training techniques involve deep understanding and acceptance of one’s sufferings and that of others.


Figure 1: Illustration of multimodal compassionate mind training: Key aspects of compassion (inner ring) and the skills training required for compassionate development (outer ring).3
Three affect regulation systems
Upon neurophysiology of emotions, CFT recognises the interconnected three affect regulatory systems underpinning certain types of feelings and social relating styles (i.e. high self-critic and shame due to imbalance regulation).
Figure 2: Three affect regulation systems4
Threat system: Activates when danger is perceived, triggering stress responses, and negative emotions, to alert and urge us to take protective actions (i.e. fight-flight and submission).
Drive system: Motivate resources seeking and goal achievements for excitement.
Soothing system: Promote feelings of safety, contentment, and connection, crucial for emotion regulation and well-being.3
Taking an interactional, compensatory view of the mind, CFT aims to balance the three by emphasising soothing system cultivation, in counteracting the dominance of either threat or drive system.3
Focusing on common human experiences and suffering
CFT acknowledges the heredity of human suffering, struggles, and self-criticism. Embracing this shared humanity, CFT aims to reduce feelings of isolation and shame, encouraging social connections, in fostering a sense of belonging and compassion towards oneself and others with similar experiences.
Therapeutic process
Initial exploration assessment
CFT therapy typically begins with a comprehensive assessment of a client's difficulties, strengths, and goals. By exploring and identifying the client’s past self-critical, shame, and self-judgemental thoughts, not only rapport can be built between therapist and client. Tailored therapeutic sessions can also be constructed to effectively address the client’s specific needs.
Client-centred collaborative goal settings
Next, comes collaborative goal setting. Depending on the client's struggles and strengths, the therapist and client work together on therapeutic objectives establishment, ensuring alignment of the client’s aspirations and values.
According to Holly Risdon, an NHS Assistant Psychologist, this can either be formulated upon the threat-focused perspective or balance of brain or motivational systems, focusing on ‘de-shaming’, while working towards compassion cultivation.
Techniques and Interventions Introduction
Therapists will introduce appropriate CFT techniques and interventions that fit the specific needs of clients to facilitate empathy and emotional regulation skills development. Mainly according to the attributes or skills of compassion that need to be strengthened, or the affect regulation system that necessitates balances, in helping shift and transform the self-critical and judgemental mindset.
Some CFT techniques/interventions include:
- Mindfulness
- Body scanning and relaxation
- Compassionate self-talk
- Compassionate letter writing
- Compassion-focused imagery2,5
Rapport and flexibility during sessions
A strong and constant rapport relationship with therapists during regular CFT sessions is crucial for clients upon their recognition and address of self-critical thoughts, despite the learning and applications of CFT techniques and interventions.
The unconditional positive regard, validation, non-judgements, and flexibility provided by therapists during clients’ vulnerabilities and emotional challenges is an essential element regarding one’s self-acceptance, compassion and empathy cultivation.
Relevant concepts and interventions
Self-compassion
Self-compassion is kindness, mindfulness and common humanity towards suffering, instead of being harshly self-critical or denying painful feelings.3,6
Despite soothing stimulation for a sense of contentment and connectedness. These emotions can alter our physiological responses, thereby facilitating emotional regulation, psychological disorders alleviation, thus overall mental wellbeing.3
Here below are some applicable self-compassion nurturing techniques
| Techniques | Description |
| Body scanning and relaxation | Foster physical well-being and self-care by systematically bringing awareness to each body part, with conscious tension and discomfort relaxation. |
| Compassionate self-talk | Offer support, encouragement, and empathy, by replacing self-criticism with kind, understanding, affirmative language. |
| Compassion narratives (letter writing/journaling) | Non-verbal expressions of personal pain, and shortcomings through compassionate narratives, as reassurance, and healing promotion. |
Compassionate mind
Core to CFT, compassion is demonstrated among specific attributes and skills. Clients are assisted to develop an internal compassionate relationship with themselves, in replace of their self-blaming internal conversations.3
| Compassionate attributes3 | Descriptions |
| Care for wellbeing | Care to alleviate distress, to facilitate flourishing and development |
| Sensitivity | Being sensitive, able to recognise, and distinguish feelings and needs |
| Sympathy | Emotionally moved by feelings and distress |
| Distress tolerance | Stay with a high level of emotions, instead of avoidance, fear divert, close down, contradiction, invalidation or denial |
| Empathy | Work to understand meanings, functions, and origins of another person’s inner world, to see it from their viewpoint |
| Non-judgemental | Not condemning, criticising, shaming or rejecting |
| (Compassionate) skills3 | Descriptions |
| Attention | Helpful and supportive attention focus |
| Reasoning | Balanced perception of the world, ourselves, and others |
| Behaviour | Alleviating distress, to facilitate development and growth |
| Imagery | Creation and exploration of ‘ideal’ compassion |
| Feeling | Experience compassion from others, for others, and the self. |
| Sensation | Exploration of bodily sensations, when being /experiencing compassion from self/ others |
Compassion practised towards others
- Active listening: Listen to others without interrupting or judging, with full attention, eye contact maintenance, and genuine interest
- Kindness and forgiveness: Show consideration and let go of grudges, offer help, smile, express gratitude and appreciation
- Seek commonalities: Focus on common ground with others, instead of differences
- Educate yourself: Learn about different cultures, perspectives, and experiences to break down barriers and reduce prejudice
Compassionate imagery
Compassionate imagery involves a series of compassion-evoking imagery exercises, regarding ‘ideal’ compassion image creation and exploration. This could be facial expressions, voice tones, sense of age, body postures, or even how others look. During imagination and visualisation, adaptation to a particular role becomes easier.3
Compassionate behaviour
Compassionate behaviour focuses on alleviating distress, with growth facilitation, chair work and role play can be powerfully experiential. Clients are invited to imagine someone sitting in the opposite empty chair, is undergoing a very similar struggle as they do. Having such compassionate feelings, and interactions imagined, altruistic and prosocial behaviours can be promoted.3,7
Applications of CFT
CFTs are applicable to address various conditions to promote emotional regulation, alleviate suffering, and foster well-being.
Individual therapy for mental health conditions
CFT has been successfully utilised as individual therapy in addressing a wide array of mental health conditions, by fostering self-compassion and reducing self-criticism and shame simultaneously, given the negative relationship between compassion and psychopathology.8
These therapies are particularly capable of treating depression, anxiety, and stress-related disorders, through a more secure and compassionate relationship development, leading to symptomatic relief.
Group therapy and self-help programs
CFT can be implemented in groups and self-help programs. Individuals can benefit from the support and shared experiences from others with similar experiences, to learn and practise compassionate skills together.
A secure network for interpersonal skills development, provides a sense of belonging, reducing loneliness and social isolation.9,10 Handouts, workbooks and online resources can also be provided to facilitate CFT skills incorporation into daily life.
Adaptations for specific populations
CFT can be adapted to meet the specific needs of specified populations or settings. Not only it can be modified to integrate activities for adolescents and families.10 It can also be adaptive to the diverse developmental level of traumatised intellectually disabled in addressing their unsafe attachment issues.11 Nonetheless, be utilised by qualified health professionals, to assist in obtaining a better mental balance.12
Integration with other therapeutic approaches
| Therapeutic approach | Integration of Compassion-focused techniques |
| Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) | Self-compassionate imagery, and self-talk in soothing to counteract negative thoughts patterns. |
| Person-Centred Therapy | Emphasis on self-acceptance and compassion towards perceived flaws in compassionate therapeutic relationships |
| Psychodynamic Therapy | Non-judgemental past experience exploration, with self-compassion cultivation for rejected/ignored inner child healing. |
| Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) | Non-judgemental value explorations, with self-compassion and acceptance towards difficult emotions, and acts of kindness and nurturing. |
| Mindfulness-Based Therapy | Compassion cultivation towards the present with loving-kindness meditation, and mindfulness practices. |
| Solution-Focused Brief Therapy | Compassion-focused questioning for inner resources exploration, with prosocial behaviours identification. |
| Gestalt Therapy | Handling unresolved emotions/needs, with compassionate talk/behaviour and empty chair work. |
| EMDR | Compassion towards traumatic experience through self-soothing resources and imagery. |
| Narrative Therapy | Compassionate language and storytelling. |
Limitations and considerations
Cultural considerations
Compassion can be expressed and experienced across different cultures. The cultural context and values of clients need to be considered in ensuring the alignment of cultural norms and beliefs.
Deep-seated self-criticism and shame
CFT addresses self-criticism and shame can be a significant barrier to self-compassion. However, individuals with self-critical tendencies or intense shame will be more challenged during self-compassion cultivation, requiring more specialised therapeutic support.
Emotion regulation
CFT often involves working with intense emotions. Individuals who struggle with emotion regulation or have a history of trauma may find it difficult to navigate and regulate the intense emotional experiences that arise. Adequate support and guidance from a trained therapist are crucial.
Integration with other therapies
While CFT can be a standalone therapy, it can also be integrated into other therapeutic approaches. However, integrating CFT with different modalities requires skill and knowledge to ensure compatibility and coherence between approaches.
Research limitations
Despite growing research in supporting CFT efficacy, there are still limitations upon sample sizes, research designs, and long-term follow-up. Further research is needed to strengthen the evidence base and understand the specific mechanisms of change in CFT.
Summary
Compassion-focused therapy (CFT) is an evidence-based psychotherapy aiming to alleviate emotional distress and promote well-being through compassion cultivation.
To enhance self-compassion, while extending it towards others, psychoeducation of its core concepts and techniques such as compassionate imagery and compassionate mind training is used to improve emotion regulation, and self-acceptance, reduce self-criticism, and foster resilience. Thereby, transforming ourselves into more empathic and confident people, along with enhanced mental wellbeing and quality of life.
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